I used to not be a book reader except for trying to force myself to enjoy reading like most other people did, fictional reading for pleasure. Finding joy from this was always hard for me whenever I really didn’t ever have a hard time day-dreaming and didn’t need a book to do that. I just wanted to play my guitar and play sports. And then there were those “other books”, aka, textbooks. I only enjoyed reading a very few books for fun, C.S. Lewis, J.R. Tolkien, and Sherlock Holmes being among the few.
Done With Reading Forever…I Thought
After finishing 25 years of school and completing my MBA I was ready for a break from reading, never to pick up a book again if I didn’t want to. After 3 or 4 months of no reading I realized that I hadn’t learned one practical thing from my accounting or finance classes. It came to me this far out because during my schooling I thought that just maybe some of the stuff I learned would make sense when I joined the real world that didn’t while I was taking the classes. But, it still hadn’t helped me. I have an MBA which is supposed to be an “advanced” degree. Does this tell you anything? That’s another story for another time. Anyway, I decided that it would be awesome if I could learn SOMETHING beneficial about investing principles that would be helpful now that money was important. So, who better than Warren Buffett? Why not go to the top, right? I mean, if anyone could teach me something it had to be someone who had experience and was known to have success.
Self-Help Book Syndrome…
I have to admit my initial feeling toward self-help books was that it is a sign of weakness, stupidity or something else derogatory for me wanting to read those books. But, my frustration with accounting and finance and the lack of understanding despite my supposed education/training in these fields as well as my curiosity to find SOMETHING useful to grasp on to in applying to my investing/budgeting/money management future spurred me on.
How I Came to Meet My Mentors…Warren Buffett, Donald Trump, Seth Godin, and the list goes on…
Warren Buffett it is. Then I had to figure out how to get as accurate a picture of Buffett as possible. I didn’t want to read a book by someone else about what they thought about Warren Buffett. I wanted to read a biography. Just straight facts about his life. I sat through 25 years of other people making crappy applications for me, some good, most bad and often didn’t make sense to me anyway. I didn’t want any “blind” obedience anymore. If I didn’t understand it, I would put the book down and not pick it up again, possibly never to pick up ANY book again, haha. So, despite my “going against my inner self” telling me that I don’t need to read about that hocus pocus crap, I read it. I found this first book extremely beneficial to me in understanding a successful roadmap to investments, a non-subjective approach, and how to handle myself in the economy in a similar fashion to Buffett. In a sense, I felt I had a private, truthful investment lesson from Buffett, no sales pitch, no strings attached. And it was quite refreshing. I went on to read Intelligent Investor to understand more of what Buffett learned to make him the investor he became..a book I would have thrown up on if a professor had told me to read it, but since it was Buffett, I read it. From here, I thought maybe I could learn some from other leaders in different areas of expertise. Two or three books later and I’ve had personal tutors from the likes of Donald Trump, Warren Buffett, and Seth Godin. Forget my ridiculous, over-educated, under-experienced accounting and finance graduate professors. Now, when I face a situation I look at it from the perspectives of people who knocked it out of the park…how would my mentors handle this? It has provided great value to me.
The Greatest Mentor of All and How I Missed Him??
One thing that this also opened my eyes to is a new appreciation for the Scripture. Why would I study scholars like Martin Luther and D.L. Moody and Matt Chandler who are providing a certain perspective on the Scriptures when I can go to the source. In regard to God and knowledge of him there is an additional and more weighty reason to take this more seriously…because there is a relationship at stake, a relationship with the God of the universe. So it’s more than just me going to a third-party for information when I can go speak to the first person. It is like me having a girlfriend and trying to be in relationship with her by going and asking her best friend what she thought. Is this not ridiculous? And yet we do this day in and day out in our schools and in our religious organizations. We don’t go to the source to problem solve appropriate solutions and live in relationship with the person. And we choose counterfeit indoctrination of principles and procedures that may or may not be right. We set ourselves up for success in a Henry Ford production line system (America up until 1990) when the situation may call for something more involved.
My Gift to You…
This blog was supposed to be about my joy of reading. And it really is, I can’t begin to express how grateful I am for what I’ve learned after graduate school. I am just so passionate about cutting the crap now because I was fed it for so long. I’ve tried looking at so many different angles and yet still coming up dry. I’m about to give you a list of the books that have helped me counteract the problems I’ve just addressed. I want to make a small disclaimer though. You can still read these books and not come up with the correct application if your foundation and philosophy of life is built upon anything other than exposing the truth. What we want is to suppress the greed, bitterness, rage, brawling, slander, malice, or other motives in our own heart that cause destruction. Setting up false idols, false hope, is not better. It’s actually worse, because when your empire falls, you have no hope but the success and money you were living for in the beginning.
Book Suggestions and Thank You’s…
So, thank you God, thank you Dana Barfield and brothers in the men’s bible study who fight onward to lead accurately and appropriately according to the Scriptures. And thank you to my tutors in the following books that have allowed me to put my own work under critical analysis from successful and willing mentors who provide the gift of their expertise. This list is by category as best I could and I hope to provide a course for you to follow. Some of these books overlap but I tried to get the main focus for each book under the appropriate title. I’ve included only the ones that have helped me the most and that anyone can benefit from. Shoot me a comment if you have a question about any of them:
Foundation and Principles for Life and Relationships:
1) “Bible”, God
Financial Wisdom and “How to Spend Money Education” That We Didn’t Get in School:
1) “Bible”, God (there are 2,350 verses that deal with money)
2) (A Crowne Financial Class is a good source of training-biblical study)
3) “The Total Money Makeover”, Dave Ramsey
4) “Buffett: The Making of An American Capitalist”, Robert Lowenstein (biography of Warren Buffett)
5) “Intelligent Investor”, Benjamin Graham (Buffett’s mentor)
6) “Rich Dad, Poor Dad”, Robert T. Kiyosaki
Ideas for Entrepreneurs, Charting Your Own Course, and Finding a Career/Vocation:
1) “Linchpin”, Seth Godin
2) “The 4-Hour Work-week”, Timothy Ferriss
2) “The Way We’re Working Isn’t Working”, Tony Schwartz
3) “48 Days to the Work You Love”, Dan Miller
4) “No More Mondays”, Dan Miller
5) “A Better Way to Make a Living and a Life”, Peter Bourke
6) “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind”, T. Harv Eker
7) “Multiple Streams of Income”, Robert Allen
Appropriate Marketing in the New Economy:
1) “All Marketers are Liars”, Seth Godin
2) “Unleashing the Idea Virus”, Seth Godin
3) “Permission Marketing”, Seth Godin
6) “Professional Services Marketing”, Mike Schultz and John E. Doerr
4) “Trade-off”, Kevin Maney
5) “Free”, Chris Anderson
Business Excellence:
1) “Good to Great”, Jim Collins
Revealing Your Bias and Getting Out From Behind Your Own Perspective and Stereotypes:
1) “Blink”, Malcolm Gladwell
Networking/Engaging Others:
1) “Never Eat Alone”, Keith Ferrazzi
Finding a Traditional Job the Traditional Way (And the Most Effective Way):
1) “Knock Em Dead”, Yate (job searching help book and the only one you need)
Productivity:
1) “The Success Principles”, Jack Canfield
2) “The Time Trap”, MacKenzie
3) “Getting Things Done”, David Allen
Others:
1) “Now, Discover Your Strengths”, Marcus Buckingham and Donald Clifton
2) “ProBlogger”, Darren Rowse and Chris Garrett
Conclusion:
Thank you God for directing me and saving me from a life of following third-party, ill-equipped sources removed from reality. And I will pray that you will also be saved from the same.